Articles for Women

The articles on this page were written with hurting wives in mind. However, the biblical truths contained in them will be of interest to pastors, counselors and those ministering to such women as well.

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Is Viewing Pornography Grounds for Divorce? By Rose Colón August 10, 2010 Read now

My friend and I sat down to lunch at a local restaurant the other day. Shortly after giving the waitress our order, my friend looked at me and said, “You remember, Linda and Charles, don’t...

The Battle to a Beautiful Mind By Ed Buch June 8, 2010 Read now

A lustful thought is like a torpedo, cruising relentlessly, silently under the water, straight toward the hull of our ship. Unless we take instant evasive action, we’re in trouble. Eventually th...

The Ultimate Question By Steve Gallagher May 10, 2010 Read now

One of the very real questions I have had to face in ministry is whether or not men in habitual sexual sin are truly saved. I have diligently studied the issue in Scripture with some of the best teach...

Homosexuality: If It's Sin, There's Hope By Brad Furges April 19, 2010 Read now

Have you noticed that the winds of change are blowing with ever-increasing intensity as of late? Nowadays anything goes, and there’s a different “take” on many of the moral issues th...

What is Right or Wrong in the Marriage Bed? By Jeff Colón March 16, 2010 Read now

What is proper for the Christian marriage bed? I can’t tell you how many times this question has come up through the years as I counsel couples that are dealing with the aftermath of sexual sin....

To Trust...Or Not to Trust? January 20, 2010 Read now

I cannot begin to tell you how many times I have heard a heart-broken wife exclaim, “I thought I knew my husband! I just found out that he has been living a total lie our entire married life...

Dealing With the Aftermath of Sexual Sin By Jeff Colón November 11, 2009 Read now

(Excerpt: From Ashes to Beauty) It was May 4, 1991. The sky was painted a heavenly blue and accented with lazy white clouds. The early spring foliage was a rich green, and even the air seemed fresh...

God's Perspective on Marriage By David Ravenhill September 10, 2009 Read now

In the beginning, God created, among other things, the perfect marriage. He did this by fashioning one of Adam’s ribs into the perfect mate for him. The couple began their new life in a dream ho...

Rebuilding a Devastated Marriage By Jeff Colón September 10, 2009 Read now

Internet pornography and sexual sin has flourished in the Church in recent years, destroying innumerable marriages in the process. In an online poll of 10,000 Christians conducted by Focus on the Fami...

A True to Life Fireproof Story September 10, 2009 Read now

A number of years ago, a minister went through the Pure Life Ministries Live-In Program following the disclosure of his involvement with online pornography. While at PLM, Larry truly accepted responsi...

Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde By Jeff Colón September 10, 2009 Read now

It was May 4, 1991. The sky was painted a heavenly blue and accented with lazy white clouds. The early spring foliage was a rich green, and even the air seemed fresh and clean in New York City that mo...

Fireproofing Marriage By Steve Gallagher September 10, 2009 Read now

I have to admit that when I first heard about the movie Fireproof, I was anything but excited. I felt as though I got “burned” on the first Kendrick brothers’ film, Facing the Giants...

Whosoever Will By Steve Gallagher December 2, 2008 Read now

We all know the expression: “But for the grace of God there go I.” It typically wells up within some grateful believer’s heart when he sees a drunk staggering down the street or some...

When the Pain Seems Unbearable By Kathy Gallagher November 12, 2008 Read now

My heart is heavy and full after the two telephone calls I received today.  The unfortunate truth of the matter is that these were fairly typical of the conversations I engage in regularly at Pur...

Crossless Christianity By Steve Gallagher July 10, 2008 Read now

They have winsome personalities. Their message is positive—even encouraging. Thousands throng into their sanctuaries every weekend. Their doctrinal beliefs are orthodox—at least on paper. ...

A Form of Godliness By Steve Gallagher July 10, 2008 Read now

As Paul was laying out his description of the Church at the end of the age, he saw that there would be many with nothing more than “a form of godliness.” In its barest sense, this must mea...

When the Gates of Hell are Prevailing By Steve Gallagher October 26, 2007 Read now

You were doing well. Your life in God was growing. You were becoming increasingly separated from the world. It had been months since you had fallen into sin. For the first time in years you were feeli...

Anatomy of an Idol By Steve Gallagher September 25, 2007 Read now

Before I expose the three great idols I have been forced to deal with in my life, it would probably be helpful if I first establish a working definition of idolatry. Webster’s Dictionary defines...

A Godly Man Comments on Modesty By Anonymous August 13, 2007 Read now

The following is a heart-felt letter written by a godly single young man to his sisters in Christ. In it he shares his struggle with immodestly dressed women in church. Eye-opening for sure. Dear S...

This Was One Foolish Decision By Steve Gallagher July 21, 2007 Read now

The title of Lance’s testimony in the “Straight Talk For Men” section is, All I Have Lost Is Worth It. This statement is not a whimsical boast but a deeply felt conviction. What he h...

The Effects of Sexual Sin on Children By Rose Colón July 21, 2007 Read now

Proverbs 15:3 The eyes of the Lord are in every place, keeping watch upon the evil and the good. (RV) When I reflect on this verse, I cannot imagine how it must grieve and break God’s heart t...

XXX Women: Not Just a Man's World After All By Kathy Gallagher July 21, 2007 Read now

Susan’s face betrayed her disgust the first time her husband suggested they watch an adult movie together. “Honey, not only will it enhance our lovemaking,” Jim exclaimed, “but...

Wives Protecting Themselves By Kathy Gallagher July 21, 2007 Read now

I recently read a book written by a woman who, for over twenty years, had lived with a man addicted to pornography. It was beautifully written and truly captured the pain a wife in such circumstances ...

When the Pain Seems Unbearable By Kathy Gallagher July 21, 2007 Read now

My heart is heavy and full after the two telephone calls I received today.  The unfortunate truth of the matter is that these were fairly typical of the conversations I engage in regularly at Pur...

The Girls the Guys Lust After By Kathy Gallagher July 21, 2007 Read now

There’s usually at least one in every church. You know, the young woman whose clothes are a bit too revealing. You probably surmised correctly that her Sunday dress is conservative compared to w...

Nothing is Too Difficult By Miranda Gaynes July 21, 2007 Read now

Although my husband—a successful worship leader—regularly stared at women in public and kept me at arm’s length emotionally, I could never have imagined what he was doing in secret. ...

Failures Are Part of the Process By Kathy Gallagher July 21, 2007 Read now

When Steve came to the Lord in 1982, I naturally assumed that his sexual escapades were over and done with.  But like many newborn believers, his zeal for the Lord was no match for the lustful de...