You feared this day for a long time.

 

His moodiness, his disconnect from you emotionally, his evasive answers, the late nights - it all makes sense now.

Whether he’s confessed it to you or not, his secret sin is now exposed.

And the pain of betrayal is worse than you imagined possible. Whether it’s pornography, an adulterous affair, prostitution, homosexuality, it’s devastating. Your world is shattered.

Who can you talk to? You feel isolated and alone. How can you tell your church friends what’s going on? Can anyone else possibly understand your pain?

You can talk to us. We do understand your pain. Having been in your shoes, our women counselors are here to minister to hurting wives.

We understand the overwhelming anger and shame you’re feeling. Like you, we’ve asked the questions over and over: Where’s God in all of this? How could He let this happen to me? How can God bring any good out of this? No matter what it feels like right now, God hasn’t abandoned you.

It may seem hard to believe, but God can and wants to restore your marriage.

Moreover, it is our testimony—and the testimony of hundreds of wives we’ve counseled over the past 25 years—that God has used our husband's sin to draw us into deeper intimacy with Himself. No matter what has happened in your marriage, you can trust God. He is faithful.

No doubt you have more questions than answers right now, but can we assure you this much: There is healing! There is hope! There are biblical answers to your questions.

We invite you take the time to view this video testimony. If you’re willing, God can lead you and your husband to a restoration that you never thought possible.

Where Do I Start?

Overcomers At-Home Program: Our 12-week phone counseling program will provide you with the biblical insight needed to navigate the deep waters of betrayal and help you answer that troubling question, "Where is God in all of this?"

When His Secret Sin Breaks Your Heart: Kathy Gallagher knows firsthand the pain of rejection, the feelings of hopelessness and the questions that plague a hurting wife. This collection of Kathy’s letters imparts wisdom, inspires hope and nurtures the healing process.

Counseling HelpLine: Don’t know where to start? All of our women counselors have been in your shoes. A 30-minute phone call with one of our certified biblical counselors can be extremely helpful in providing the biblical guidance you need to make critical decisions in this time of overwhelming uncertainty.

Additional Resources: Essential materials from the Pure Life Ministries library to get hurting wives started on the path to healing and restoration.