The Power of God's Grace

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The Power of God's Grace

Another truth that we often miss the full impact of as cultural Christians is that it's even possible for the God of the universe to have a relationship with men.

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Why Marriage Cannot Cure Your Lust Problem

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Why Marriage Cannot Cure Your Lust Problem

Many sex addicts incorrectly view their struggle as a sex problem. Those who are single often tend to view marriage as the “easy-button” fix for their issue. Due to the fact that they are unable to satisfy their lust in a healthy way, they assume that, if only they were married, then they could get free. But the truth is that lust isn’t a sex problem; it’s a sin problem. And the only way to conquer sin is through repentance.

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Overcoming Lust

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Overcoming Lust

Lust is the byproduct of being unsatisfied with your plight in life. You can have nothing or you can have everything, and still be overcome by lust.

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How to Help Children Who Have Been Abused

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How to Help Children Who Have Been Abused

Unquestionably, sin destroys lives. Perhaps there is no sin that leaves such devastation in its wake as that of child abuse. Long after an offender has indulged his perverted fantasies, the effects of his actions continue to haunt the child. One moment of lust can produce a lifetime of anguish for the molested child.

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How to Encourage Honesty from a Sex Addict

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How to Encourage Honesty from a Sex Addict

“I have been buying pornography and going to massage parlors.” His announcement left me stunned and angry because he had been lying to me for the past 18 months. The only reason he was telling me the truth now was that his wife had caught him. I had poured out my life to this man! Then I found that his self-reports were all bogus. How could he have done this to me – me the great friend, the great counselor, the sacrificial servant?! 

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Can I Really Stop These Powerful Habits?

Can I Really Stop These Powerful Habits?

I can think back on many situations when a hopeless counselee sat in front of my desk, despondent and bemoaning, “I’ll never change” or “I’ve always been this way.” In fact, I once sat in that same chair, thinking the same thoughts, being bound for so many years in my own sin. Now having been set free for almost twenty years, those words don’t hold much water with me.

How to Build an Effective Support Group

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How to Build an Effective Support Group

The effectiveness of support groups varies greatly. Some offer genuine help, while others actually do more harm than good. Major pitfalls can be avoided through a proper understanding of the dynamics involved in running a successful group. A group which God can use to change lives needs two essential components: biblical accountability and the proper goal.

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